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Thursday, June 30, 2016

Open letter to the skanks, skeezers, schemers and sundry that want Jesse Williams

Hello Lovelies. 

First let me say that you think you picked an "ideal" target if you are a thirsty, gold-digging tramp that likes wrecking homes.  But let me tell you that it would better serve you to look elsewhere.




Mrs. Aryn Drake-Lee Williams will snatch your implants out.  Sister looks like she is from the beat your azz school of marriage management.  Even though she is an educated, intelligent, tri-lingual businesswoman, she will still dust that behind.

The web is all atwitter about how she looks, mind your own damn business,  cretins. And unfortunately, the most virulent garbage has been coming from women of color.

I do not know this couple personally, but from what I have seen they have some Pauline and Denzel mojo going on.  I know it's disappointing, but believe it or not, all men are not cheating bastards. Jesse looks like he might be a real man who honors his commitments.

Listen, I know you think it is easier to pick a target, stalk him, seduce him and live happily ever after, then it would be to get a job AND EARN YOUR OWN DAMN MONEY, but it won't.

Cause you will never be able to trust him since he cheated on his wife with you.  

I understand that you feel slighted cause a sister with a different type of beauty has the man of your dreams, get over it.

Aryn has stood by his side through thick and thick and this brother appears to have substance.  He does not look rabbity to me at all.  Of course, as I indicated, I don't know them.

But what I do know is he stood up in front of millions of people and tore the bandage off the racist wounds that America refuses to acknowledge.  I know that his wife has been his ride or die for longer than he has been trending. I know that what he said is gonna piss a lot of people off, you down for that?

And I am pretty sure there is nothing you have on offer that can top the loving relationship that he is already in.  

So may I suggest that you start working on self. 

First, stop bashing sisters cause they have what you want.

Second, try to remember, that someone's husband is not your boyfriend, he's somebody's husband.

Third, stop looking for the easy way out and put in the work for a relationship like Aryn and Jesse have.

Last, put those claws away thirsty, they are not attractive.


Wednesday, June 29, 2016

It just gets worse and worse - Texas Mother shoots daughters

Dear NRA, are you fucking kidding me right now?  Just how much money do you need?  By now you must have more money than God.

 And Local LEO, you went to this home how many times, and nobody thought she might be a danger to herself or others?

I do not know why this case resonates so much to me, maybe it's because I am a mother? Nope, it is because I am a human being that has witnessed at least two avoidable mass shootings in the past two weeks.

They should change the name of the NRA to Pimpin LaMoco, cause they are raking in the dollars while America bleeds. 

This is a clear case of governmental failure, and I am sure the last police officers that responded to a call at that home are kicking themselves.

It is true that no one could have predicted the awful outcome of this Mother's madness, but 14 domestic calls is a cry for help.  Sorry we did not hear you.  





Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense in America
10 hrs
UPDATE: More terrifying details are emerging about the Texas mom who fatally shot her two daughters, Madison, 17, and Taylor, 22.
Family and friends say the mother, who was also a gun extremist, was suffering from a "mental crisis" and that police had been called to the home at least 14 times in the past.
Apparently the mother shot and wounded her daughters during a "family meeting." The girls then ran from the home with their mother in pursuit. After Madison collapsed in the street; the mother went back inside to reload. She then returned and shot Taylor again in the back.
Police shot and killed the mother when she wouldn't drop her gun and appeared to be prepared to shoot her daughters again.

Mother called a family meeting just before the shooting.
YAHOO.COM

Tuesday, June 28, 2016

Attention Facebook, how can you "like" something too fast?!?!?!?!?!

Good afternoon Fam, I am sitting here in shock,  Facebook blocked me....because I was using the "like" function too fast.

Since I have been out of the office for almost two months,  I admit that my Facebook addiction has gone into overdrive, and I spend way tooooooooooooooo much time liking pictures of kittens and bunnies.  And while I was mindlessly pushing like and adding emojis, never heard a mumbling word from the great FB.

Now that I have launched my business page, Black Butterfly Photography Chicago, I have been posting a lot of captures, launched two blogs and trying to get a 3rd going.  So you might say I have been blowing up my pages, but a girl has to eat.

When I signed on in 2009, had no idea that I was going to end up dedicating hours to the timesuck known as social media.  But here I am true and thoroughly hooked and not ashamed to tell it on the mountain.

I know that Facebook is not out to get me, considering how much I drop on games (my dirty little secret), you would think I'd get a pass while I work on my marketing plan.

I have only been blocked once before, back in my newbie days, cause I wanted to be every bodies friend.  After I got over the outrage, I thought I had this Facebook thing handled.

Seems I was wrong.  I did respond to the survey, but if they read my comments and answer I will be amazed.

Cause what is bothering me is the sheer pettiness of the aforementioned "block", how can you like something too fast.  And if the FB robots don't realize that I am human, explain all the adds tailored to my interest.

Do not get me wrong, not blaming Facebook, just looking for answers.

Monday, June 27, 2016

Kyrie, are you kidding me ?

One step forward, one step back.

Jesse Williams delivered an impassioned acceptance speech that has the world all agog.  And I am proud of the young son of Chicago.  He has demonstrated his racial pride to all and sundry.  He has even been lauded as the next great black statesman. Way to go Bro!!

I have seen him walk the walk while talking the talk and he gets mad respect from me.

On the other side of the spectrum is Kyrie (I do not invite Black women to my yacht parties) Irving.  I don't care who he invites where, just suggest he function with a higher level of discretion.


His supporters are flying his freedom-to-choose flag, and I agree.  I am just suggesting that he keep his self-loathing to his own self.  We do not need to know all his personal business.  The fact that he insulted black women the world over should not be held against him since he is obviously suffering from some sort of mental illness.

On second thought, I am not going to let him get away with that illness crap.  I want a heartfelt apology from Sir Colorstruck, on the front page of the New York Times. Not going to happen, but I can ask.

Also need to remind him to check his inner circle, cause all hoes ain't loyal, and someone in his camp sold him out. You know it's true, cause how else would the world know that he might be able to handle that pill, but handling his personal business....not so much.

I wish him nothing but success in his future endeavors, but all so suggest he work on his off-court game, cause it's weak.


Sunday, June 26, 2016

Summer is here and so is S.W.A.T.

My hubby and I spent a leisurely visit with his Mother at her rehabilitation facility today and as we headed back to the South Side, look at what I saw rolling down Lake Shore Drive.

This is a genuine SWAT vehicle with mortar ports in the freaking windows.

Attention Cap Busters and Gang Bangers, this will wreck your world.  I do not care what you are shooting with, unless it's an A Bomb, you are S.O.L.

I bring this to your attention because if you continue to shoot up our neighborhoods, you might just get a visit from this bad boy, and that is not a fight you can win.

Since common sense is in such short supply recently, maybe the thought of a mortar up your behind will help you put down the guns.

I know that the world is spinning out of control, no jobs, etc, etc, etc, but bullets are not going to solve a damn thing.

Do not think for a minute that the Mayor will not shut this city down, go door to door and haul you off to a concentration camp.

Not possible you say, well keep up the mayhem and find out.

This violence has got to stop.  Is it possible, yes. Is it probable?   Not without a concentrated effort to convince the shooters that their neighbors are not going to put up with this any longer.

And if all else fails, remember that swat van that the CPD is itching to use.










Saturday, June 25, 2016

Mothers, mind your children

Once upon a time children were seen and not heard, and got beaten like rugs.  I have been on the receiving end of more than a few butt-whippings.

But this latest Mother is a whole nother beast.  She shot two of her teenage daughters..in the street, like the OK Corral. Shot them dead, then the police shot her.

I cannot pretend that I haven't wanted to stab somebody, stake them to an ant hill, flay them alive...but shoot someone, I DO NOT GET IT...

I do not know what they were arguing about, but I do know the Mother had to be insane when she pulled the trigger on two of her children.

And all this could have been avoided, if there were no guns in the house.  Whatever happened to a good old fashioned fist fight, or hair pulling, arms windmilling into your opponent, or jello wrestling.  How about using anxiety bats when somebody pisses you off? 

This is not the Wild West, or is it?

I have thought long and hard about what could make me shoot my son, and the only scenario I envision is the Zombie Apocalypse. Love him madly but he cannot eat my brain.

The remaining family members have to deal with a situation that I would not wish on my worse enemy.  And for what?  We will never know what caused this woman to shoot and kill her daughters, but whatever it was, it could have been solved without gun-play.

I am not sending thoughts and prayers to the family, I am going to work hard to get common sense gun legislation in place asap.

This must stop.








Friday, June 24, 2016

Remember in November

The most important election in the history of the USA is fast approaching.  Don't be distracted by the fuster cluck that is Drumpf, or the 3 ring Democratic circus...it is not just the presidency that is at stake, it is the fate of the country.

We can be influenced by mass media, or we can do our own research, draw our own conclusions and vote our conscience.

That is all I ask.

Remember the names of the 52 that refused to vote on any form of gun control on the heels of the deaths of 49 Americans.

Remember Freddie Gray, Sandra Bland, Tryvon Martin and all the others sacrificed on the alter of racism.

Remember the ongoing war on women being waged by the GOP, christian fanatics and the media.

Remember Donald Drumpf, the clown prince of racist, backbiting, illiterate, bigots everywhere.  There is little human about this man.


Remember our ancestors fought and died for the right to vote in this country.

Remember the warriors for civil rights that gave their lives.

But most of all, remember to vote.